Why let the boys have all the fun? These days, bridesmaids are throwing Bachelorette bashes that rival anything his wildest buddies can dream up. And they aren't sacrificing style either. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

For the ultimate in female bonding, organize a destination weekend in a location renowned for its party life, like Las Vegas or South Beach in Miami. Both cities offer fabulous hotels, varied nightlife and plenty of sunshine.

Vegas:
Have a spa day at the Bellagio, or explore the fabulous shopping at the Bellagio, Ceasar's Palace and the Venetian, three hotels known for luxurious accommodations. Dine at a hip restaurant: Circus, Aqua, or Nobu and catch a show: Cirque du Soleil, Tommy Tune, or even Wayne Newton. You'll have to stay up through the wee hours to squeeze in the strippers, dance clubs and gambling.

South Beach:
Rent a pool cabana at the Delano or National Hotels where you can people watch all day. Eat at Bamboo, Opium, or Joia. Dance until dawn at any one of the countless clubs along Washington Street.

New York, New York:
The tried and true Bachelorette staples in New York are in the meat packing district: a rowdy dinner at Tortilla Flats, and dancing on the bar at Hogs and Heifers or Automatic Slims. Add a little spice at the Donkey Show, an erotic dance show that features audience participation. For entertainment while you dine, go to Lucky Cheng's, located in the East Village, where transvestites doubling as waiters give makeup tips to brides-to-be.

If a destination weekend is out of the question, here are some ideas you can try without venturing far from home.

Star for a Night: After dinner at her favorite restaurant, take the bride out to a Karaoke bar to belt out her favorite tunes and at your request. Decorate your dinner table with confetti stars, paparazzi cameras, and glam photos of her. Make her the autograph book: give her a washable pen and require 50 male signatures somewhere on her body. Give her a boa, spike heels, glitter and other diva musts.

Spa Day: Start the day with a private yoga session for all. Then relieve the bride's wedding stress with a day of massages, facials, manicures and pedicures. Try to arrange it in your home or an elegant hotel suite, for maximum privacy. If that doesn't work, take over part of a day spa and chat over simultaneous manicures and pedicures. Bring along a video camera and white board, and see how her answers compare to prearranged questions already asked of her groom. (Don't be afraid to get personal!) Serve Mimosas and Bloody Marys, or herbal tea and cucumber water.

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